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June 2015 Financial Update


June is over which means we are half way through the year already.  After climbing for most of the year, our net worth reversed course and dropped to $1,519,000 due to fluctuations in the stock market.  Our income outpaced our expenses by a few thousand dollars and spending for the year remains within our budget.  I’d say we are doing pretty well in spite of the drop in net worth.

Right now we are at the midpoint of our seven week vacation in Mexico, so our spending is very different than it normally is while at home in Raleigh.



June provided us with $4,833 in investment income.  Our dividend income comes at the end of each quarter since we own mutual funds and ETFs.  We also received another few thousand dollars in the first few days of July, but those will be reflected in next month’s financial update.  About $2,500 of our investment income came from our taxable investment accounts.  That represents about one month’s worth of expenses.

Blog income, shown as “other income” in the chart was lower than normal at $463 for the month.  It would have been a lot higher if I was able to cash the checks that are (hopefully) waiting for me at home.  I expect July or August will have phenomenal blog income once I return home and cash all those checks!

Freelance writing income was fairly steady at $125.

Even though Mrs. Root of Good hasn’t worked since early May, her paycheck still shows up each month since she’s on a paid sabbatical.

The $162 of “insurance” income was a refund of my home and auto policies that I cancelled after obtaining new insurance with more coverage at lower premiums.  Now I’m the proud owner of an umbrella policy!  In general, you should be your own insurance company but in this case the extra liability coverage wasn’t very expensive and will protect me from all but the most expensive lawsuits (should the need arise).  When you have significant assets, it makes sense to protect them if the cost of insurance isn’t ridiculous.


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Now let’s look at June expenses:


At $3,089 for June, we spent slightly more than our target of $2,700 per month (1/12th of our $32,400 per year early retirement budget).  Almost all of our spending was vacation related or insurance.

Chapultepec Castle, Mexico City

Chapultepec Castle, Mexico City before the hike up

Travel expenses of $1,687 made up our highest category of spending for the month.  This breaks down to $1,100 in cash withdrawals from the ATM and spending on the credit card as follows:

  • $130 at grocery stores here in Mexico
  • $400 on bus tickets for the five of us
  • Under $100 on restaurants

The $1,100 in cash wasn’t fully spent in June but I’ll leave it in the June report for the sake of simplicity.  We carried about $600 of the $1,100 cash into July and it should last us the rest of the trip (or close to it).  I haven’t been keeping track of every dollar (or peso) spent in the cash category since I’m more interested in having fun than being an accountant.  It’s roughly 80% restaurants, snacks and produce at the open air markets, 10% museum admissions and fun stuff, and 10% local transportation (taxis, buses, subway).

Some of the fun stuff: $2 USD for admission to the ropes course and zip line.  Wheeee!

Some of the fun stuff: $2 USD for admission to the ropes course and zip line. Wheeee!

I talked about how cheap it is in Mexico in my first week’s trip update and in the post where I considered whether we could retire to Mexico (or at least spend extended periods of time here).  From $0.30 USD metro tickets to $8 museum admission fees (for a family of 5!), it’s a very affordable place to vacation or spend a longer period of time.  With longer stays we can take advantage of the economics of slow travel.

Pyramid with snakes and monsters, National Anthropology Museum, Mexico City

Pyramid with snakes and monsters, National Museum of Anthropology, Mexico City

Mayan Temple, National Museum of Anthropology, Mexico City

Mayan Temple, National Museum of Anthropology, Mexico City

So far we aren’t spending as much as I planned in our full trip budget.  I budgeted $8/day for local buses, subways, and taxis and we are closer to $3 or less on most days.  Groceries and restaurants have been less expensive than anticipated probably because we are dining at home more than dining in restaurants (some cooking, some take out).

All other categories of our budgeted trip expenses are cheaper than planned except intercity bus travel.  We’ve already spent the budgeted $800 because we decided to take the two hour flight to Cancun instead of the 26 hour bus ride.  We still have to buy round trip bus tickets from Cancun to Tulum, so we’ll come in a little over budget in this category.

Main courtyard of the National Palace, Mexico City

Main courtyard of the National Palace, Mexico City

Our Raleigh based utilities were only $120 for the month.  I prepaid our water bill and electricity bill in previous months to meet our minimum spending requirement on the Chase United Mileageplus Explorer card and the Chase British Airways card.  Those cards gave us over 100,000 airline miles (= how we fly for free).  Check out all of the current credit card deals if you want to cash in on free travel too!

Grocery expenses back home in Raleigh were under $100 since we were only there for a week.  I’m missing the convenience of a well stocked fridge, freezer, and pantry we usually have at home since we’re only able to buy what we can consume within two weeks (we’re moving to a new city every two weeks).


At $14,384 year to date spending, we are almost two thousand dollars under the $16,200 budgeted for the first half of 2015.  And that’s in spite of spending seven crazy weeks on vacation in Mexico.  Our spending for the year as a whole should be roughly within our budget and possibly below budget as long as no major unexpected expenses pop up later in the year.

Monthly spending for 2015 to date:


Net Worth: $1,519,000 (-$31,000)

This is month #4 above the magical $1.5 million mark but we’re dipping dangerously close to the line after a $31,000 loss in June.  $31,000 used to seem like a lot of money, and I guess it still is since that’s about what we spend each year.  But in the game of watching your investment portfolio fluctuate month to month, it’s just noise.  It goes up some months and it goes down other months in an unpredictable fashion over the short term.


Last month I said:

[Our portfolio growth] won’t continue in a relatively straight line forever, so perhaps June will be that month that looks like a bump in the road a few years from now (but feels pretty ugly as we experience it in real time).

I guess the loss of a year’s worth of expenses should be troublesome.  But I’m not worried about it yet.  We still have plenty of funds to provide our living expenses for this year, next year and many years afterward.  I don’t think we are likely to run out of money any time soon.

We have been so busy exploring San Miguel de Allende, Guanajuato, and Mexico City that I haven’t paid much attention to daily fluctuations in the stock market.  Other than logging in to transfer the thousands of dollars of dividend income to my checking account, I just haven’t had time to dwell on what’s happening each day in the market.  It’s just as well since there will always be some crisis distracting us from the long term approach required to be a successful investor.  Today it’s the Greek financial crisis, tomorrow it will be something else.



How was your financial June?  



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Retiring Abroad – Could We Do It?


We are in the middle of our seven week adventure in Mexico right now.  Although we traveled to Mexico just for fun, I’m also viewing the trip as an opportunity to explore a few places where we might spend prolonged periods of time in the future.  That might mean spending a year or more living abroad or spending summers or winters chasing nice weather.

Mexico tends to top the lists of places to retire abroad.  I think I know why: inexpensive living, good weather, and close proximity to the US.  But it’s not all rainbows and unicorns south of the border.

Throughout the decade of building my retirement stash, I was always intrigued by the early retirees that chose to live overseas.  Jeremy and Winnie, who blog at Go Curry Cracker retired in their 30’s and have traveled or lived in various locales in Latin America and Asia since then.  Billy and Akaisha Kaderli also retired in their 30’s and have been traveling the world for the past 25 years.  The maybe-retired Jed at Bucking the Trend is living in Granada, Spain at the moment with his wife and two kids.  The folks at Bumfuzzle, though not likely to self-describe as “early retired”, have trotted the globe by van and by boat for around a decade now (and are currently in Mexico not far from us).  They also had a couple of kids along the way.  Others are doing it, so I know it’s not impossible.

Moving to a low cost of living destination overseas that many people visit on vacation sounds exciting.  It’s not currently our Plan A but might be a decent Plan B or Plan C.

Here’s my take on the pros and cons of retiring abroad:


The Pros

Living in Mexico is cheap.  Virtually everything is the same price as in the US or less.  Sometimes much less.  Fruits and vegetables are half the price of what we pay in Raleigh.  There are amazing bakeries all over called “panaderias” that serve up hot and fresh breads and pastries for well under a buck each.  Sit down restaurants run roughly 30-50% less than Raleigh, while incredible street food can be 50-75% less than something similar back home.  Check out our $12 USD lunch of steak tacos, soup, fish, and french fries.

That is way too many french fries for one family to eat.

That is way too many french fries for one family to eat.  In the bags are ketchup, spicy salsa, cilantro and diced onions, sliced onions and peppers, limes, and radishes (free stuff they give you when you order take out).

Beyond the price of food, there’s also the freshness of the fruits and vegetables.  Because the climate allows year round growing seasons, there are lots of somewhat locally grown fresh produce all the time.  Many tropical fruits like mangoes, pineapples, and avocados are hard to find at peak ripeness in Raleigh at any price. But that’s not a problem here where fruit stands are plentiful.

As far as access to US goods, it’s pretty easy to find almost anything you want here.  There are Walmarts, Sam’s Clubs, Costcos, and a variety of other similar warehouse and big box stores offering any grocery product, electronic item, household good, or clothing article you want.  The styles and varieties might be different than what you are used to, but overall it’s not hard to find what you want.

Housing can be cheaper than many parts of the US, though maybe not by much if we were to stay in an expat area or a decent part of Mexico City.  Our current rental apartment of about 700 square feet in Mexico City costs $135,000 USD, similar to our 1,800 square foot house in Raleigh.

Our swank little Mexico City rental.  At nightly airbnb rates it's $350 USD per week furnished including all utilities.

Our swank little Mexico City rental. At nightly airbnb rates it’s $320 USD per week furnished including all utilities.  Monthly rentals would drop the rate quite a bit.

Transportation is about $0.30-0.35 USD (5-6 pesos) for local buses or the subway.  Mostly clean, generally fast, and with a more respectable clientele than what I’ve experienced on public transit in the US.  Taxis are incredibly cheap, with fares starting around $2 USD for a short trip and usually no more than $3-4 for most places around town.  Cheap and convenient buses, subways, and taxis make it easy to skip car ownership, unlike where we live in Raleigh.

Some public areas like parks and playgrounds are very nice but it’s highly variable.


Services like housecleaning and repairs are very affordable.  Essentially any labor-intensive service won’t cost a lot compared to US prices.  In Mexico City, 4-5 hours of housekeeping runs about $20 USD (300 pesos).  In San Miguel de Allende, we were asked to pay the maid an extra $2.67 USD (40 pesos) per hour if we have her cook for us or render additional services.

Saving money isn’t the only good thing about Mexico.  The weather is incredible.  This summer the temperatures have been in the 70’s and low 80’s during the day then dipping into the 50’s at night.  Air conditioning isn’t necessary at all at these temps.  Back home in Raleigh it’s been a steady 90-100 degrees almost every day.  Some folks winter in Mexico, but we are tempted to summer in Mexico.  The weather stats I’m throwing out pertain to the central highland area in and around Mexico City.  It’s crazy hot and humid in many coastal locations similar to the southeastern US during summer.

We’re also enjoying the novelty of new parks, museums, food, music, customs, and culture.  A trip to the grocery store or market is an adventure, whereas at home it’s just a chore.  I imagine the novelty would wear off after a certain point though.


The Cons

Some costs are higher, such as imported foodstuffs or items that aren’t very common in Mexico.  Spaghetti sauce, for example is $1.50-$2.00 per not very tasty can here (or $3 for a jar of Prego), whereas back home I can get decent pasta sauce for $1.00 per jar or can.  Italian deli meats are crazy expensive and you’re mostly stuck with expensive cooked and pressed ham or uninspired turkey meat if you want sliced meat for a sandwich.  It’s obviously smart to live like the locals when imported goods are expensive.

“Don’t drink the tap water”, they say.  As a result, you have to buy bottled water ($.50 for a small bottle or a few bucks for five gallons) and can’t simply quench your thirst at water fountains scattered around town at parks and in stores and museums.  Brushing teeth and washing produce require extra effort compared to using tap water.

At $2.60 USD (39 pesos), this 750 mL of tequila is cheaper than mouthwash.

At $2.60 USD (39 pesos), this 750 mL of tequila is cheaper than mouthwash.

It’s easy to save money on almost everything down in Mexico, but flying back to the US to visit friends and family would eat into any cost savings (particularly for our family of five).  We could partially offset the flight costs by travel hacking credit cards (which is how we got free flights to Mexico this year!) but I’m not sure if we could get free flights indefinitely through travel hacking.  Eventually the kids would be out of the house and at that point, buying two round trip tickets is much more affordable for the occasional trip back home.

As foreigners not quite fluent in the language, we are occasionally subjected to the “tourist tax”.  Cashiers and shopkeepers sometimes “forget” to give us the correct change.  Taxi drivers know we don’t know exactly what a trip should cost, so we end up paying a little extra.  We have been fairly vigilant about not getting ripped off but it will happen.  No point in getting mad.  It’s just a cost of doing business.  The longer you are here and the more fluency you have in the language, the less likely you are to pay tourist rates for anything.

On the subject of language, it’s a big deal.  Unless you’re staying in an expat area that caters to English-speaking Americans and Canadians, not knowing the local language will make life a lot more difficult.  On the flip side, living here forces you to learn more Spanish since you can’t avoid it.  “Language” could be a positive aspect of life abroad if you are interested in learning the language (which we are).

Culture shock can be challenging.  Clothing choices, for example, vary between the US and Mexico.  No one here wears shorts.  Trash is pretty common on the streets in Mexico, whereas the US does a better job of providing (and emptying) trash receptacles and enforcing litter laws.  Dog poop on the sidewalks is another common sight here, whereas in the US it’s mostly picked up by the dog’s owner.  Otherwise, our societies share a lot of common characteristics given our western European cultural origins.

For long term residents, immigration issues can be an issue.  In Mexico, everyone gets a 180 day tourist visa no questions asked.  Without filing for residency, you’ll have to make a border run every six months to reset the clock on your tourist visa.  I’m not up to date on Mexico’s take on “permanent tourists” that make visa runs every six months, but they might catch on and deny you entry (at least in theory).  And leaving the country every six months could grow tiresome pretty quickly if you just want to relax and enjoy life at home.  Plus it’s not cheap to buy plane tickets for a family of five twice per year (though travel hacking credit cards helps), nor do we enjoy quick weekend trips like making border runs to renew visas since we have young children.


The Kids’ Perspective

Since we have three kids between age three and ten, we have to keep them in mind when deciding whether we want to live overseas in retirement.

After three weeks of living in Mexico, the kids have developed a routine.  Plenty of down time, some time at the park, some time on chores (they are the official Root of Good dishwashers!), and some touristy stuff like visiting pyramids and museums.

When I asked the kids what they thought about living in Mexico, they say they don’t want to live here (yet).  The tap water isn’t clean and according to them, “you could die from it”.  I’m not certain you could actually die from ingesting Mexican water, but you can get a stomach ache.

On the upside, the kids realize that their money goes further here in Mexico as measured by ice cream.  Prices range from $0.25 USD for a popsicle up to a buck or two for a large cup or cone of hand made ice cream in tons of different flavors.


Our 3 year old keeps asking to go back to the pyramids. Guess he’s a fan!

They are able to keep in touch with family and friends through video chats on Skype and Google Hangouts, so they aren’t socially isolated while we’re on the road.  If we lived here on a more permanent basis, they would eventually make new friends and learn enough of the language to get by.

The final concern with living abroad with kids is schooling.  We could always home school, and incur minimal costs for a curriculum and materials.  If we wanted to go the traditional schooling route, there might be substantial costs for a private school if the public schools near where we live are not adequate (though we are no strangers to less than perfect schools).

A rough estimate of costs for tuition at a private school range from $2,000 to $5,000 USD per year per kid.  If we went the traditional schooling route and wanted an education similar to what we can get in the US, it will be very expensive.  In fact, paying for private education would likely offset any cost of living savings from housing, food, and transportation costs.  Homeschool might be our best option if lowering our cost of living is the primary objective of living in Mexico.


Why Retire Abroad?

Why would we want to retire abroad?  Lower cost of living is a prime motivation.  Or phrased a different way, we could stretch our dollars further and live a nicer lifestyle than we can afford in the US on the same budget.

We are able to get by on a retirement budget of about $33,000 per year including a paid off house.  We could rent our house in the US and net $800-900 per month which might be enough to allow us to rent a decent furnished house or apartment in Mexico.  Almost all of our costs would drop, but we would have to use part of our $5,300 vacation budget for visits back to the US.  Food, transportation, and entertainment costs would drop.  Electronics and appliances tend to cost the same or more down here, so we might see an increase in these expense categories.  Overall, I imagine we could live a slightly more luxurious lifestyle on a little less money.

But should we move 2,000 miles away just to save a little money?  That’s the tough part of the equation.  I don’t think it’s necessarily better or worse in Mexico assuming you have adequate funds to live on.   Just different in some aspects.  There’s a vibe here that’s hard to explain.  The parks seem to attract more people having fun.  There’s always a festival or parade or protest going down.  Running errands can be a cultural and language adventure.

So far, we aren’t committed to retiring overseas, but I’m still taking notes on the three cities we are visiting for extended periods of time.  Our next step in pursuing overseas living would be to spend an entire summer in a longer term rental to see how we like it.  Although we miss a few things about home, no one has broken down in tears crying to return to Raleigh just yet.  We’ll see how the next month of travel treats us.



Could you retire overseas?  What would it take to motivate you to leave your home country and live abroad?



The Start Of Our Adventures in Mexico


As I’m writing this at our house in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, the house maid laboriously scrubs all horizontal and vertical surfaces in the kitchen and just finished washing the dishes.  It’s taking some time to get used to having a maid deep clean the house every other day while we lie around the house, stuff our faces and head out for a day of adventuring.

When I say “house”, I should really say “compound”.  There is a main house and a separate apartment above us where the kids sleep.  Each house has its own kitchen, living room, bathroom(s), and patio.


Main house’s patio

We’ll be staying at this house for two weeks before moving on to Mexico City for another two weeks (full trip outline).  This was our most expensive weekly rental at $62 USD per night plus a few bucks per night to tip the maid.  The maid comes four times per week for four to six hours each visit which seems like overkill to me.  After we arrived we found out that the maid washes the dishes in the kitchen for us on every visit.  Which is awesome.

We decided to spend a little more on lodging during this trip after last year’s bad Airbnb experience when we rented a very cheap but very dirty dump in Quebec City.  When housing is as cheap as it is in Mexico, an extra $100 per week means a lot nicer place.

The house also provides virtually everything we need to get by day to day other than food.  The only household goods purchased so far are laundry detergent, shampoo, and paper towels.


The Food.  So Much Incredible Food.

One of the key reasons we wanted to visit Mexico was the food.  It’s cheap, it’s delicious, and offers a lot of variety in flavor combos (sweet, sour, salty, spicy, creamy).

Our first meal in Mexico City was at the Restaurant Without a Name.  That’s not it’s name, I mean it didn’t have a name.  Not a lot more than a hole in the wall.  The bathroom door was an upcycled shower door and the flooring and walls were constructed from reused shipping pallets.  I’m assuming these were cost saving efforts and not an attempt at some silly hipster irony (in spite of the fancy Roma neighborhood we stayed in the first night in Mexico).

The restaurant without a name.

The restaurant without a name.

This joint is straight up Mexico.  Inattentive wait staff with a blaring telenovela on the TV behind us.  I asked the waitress/chef/hostess if I could photograph the kitchen and got declined.  This Restaurant Without A Name might also be a Restaurant Without A Valid Operating License.

Chilaquiles with chicken.  Sort of like a really wet version of nachos.

Chilaquiles with chicken. Sort of like a really wet but delicious version of nachos.

My chilaquiles and tacos were really impressive but the rest of the family gave it mixed reviews.

Now that we have settled in San Miguel de Allende, we are mostly ordering take out and bringing it back to our house to enjoy.  I can’t get over how cheap the food is.  Here’s a pic of the chickens I picked up on the way home from the market.


2 whole chickens neatly wrapped “para llevar” – to go.

$8 USD ($120 MXN pesos) for two roasted chickens, potatoes, roasted chiles, pickled cabbage/carrot/jalapeno, and tortillas.  The chicken was pulled off the rotisserie spit and chopped then neatly wrapped right in front of me as I fumbled to pull the right number of pesos from my pocket.  We didn’t manage to eat all of this in one meal. Or two meals.  Or three meals.  So far we aren’t spending the $40 USD per day that we budgeted on food, but it isn’t because we aren’t eating well.

20 pesos ($1.33 USD) for 5 tacos and a bottle of Coke in the metro station.

20 pesos ($1.33 USD) for 5 tacos and a bottle of Coke in the metro station.

30 pesos ($2 USD) for a huge ripe coconut.  The vendor put the juice in a bag with a straw and after cutting up the coconut meat, placed it in a second bag.

30 pesos ($2 USD) for a huge ripe coconut. The vendor put the juice in a bag with a straw and after cutting up the coconut meat, placed the meat in a second bag.  It was so much coconut we couldn’t eat it all!

We also visited the grocery store Bodega Aurrera which is a subsidiary of Walmart.  It looked like a Sam’s Club inside but didn’t require you to buy anything in bulk.  I picked up some yogurt ($0.16 USD each), local chipotle and avocado salsas ($0.75 USD each), domestic Oaxaca and Asadero cheeses (about $2.50 USD/lb), crema, chorizo sausages, mole paste, and a mixed bag of breads and pastries.


Fresh fruits and vegetables are available from the open air markets, vendors sitting along the street, or in small stores all over.  Prices are crazy cheap.


Mini bananas!!

A sampling of produce prices in the markets:

  • Bananas – $0.21 USD/lb ($7 MXN pesos/kg)
  • Broccoli – $0.30 USD/lb ($10 MXN pesos/kg)
  • Mangoes – $0.36 USD/lb ($12 MXN pesos/kg)
  • Oranges – $0.18 USD/lb ($6 MXN pesos/kg)
  • New potatoes – $0.50 USD/lb ($17 MXN pesos/kg)
  • Avocados – $.75-1.05 USD/lb ($25-35 MXN pesos/kg)
  • Limes – $.30 USD/lb ($10 MXN pesos/kg)

Most produce is less than half of the going price in US supermarkets.  Mangoes are about $0.20 to $0.25 each for example while I’ve never paid less than $0.50 for individual mangoes in Raleigh.  Limes are incredibly cheap with small ones around two cents each.

If you want to see what I usually pay for groceries in Raleigh, check this out.



Getting around Mexico hasn’t been a problem at all.  We flew into Mexico City then caught the metro to our hotel.  The metro is only five pesos ($0.33 USD) per person and kids age four and under travel free.  The metro can be crushingly busy during rush hours however we arrived in the middle of the day and didn’t feel crowded at all.

We spent the first night in Mexico relaxing at the Four Points by Sheraton Roma (another free hotel night from our Starwoods Preferred Guest points thanks to travel hacking credit cards!).  The next morning we traveled by metro to Mexico City’s northern bus terminal (the city has four bus terminals!) and boarded a first class Primera Plus bus to San Miguel de Allende.

Fresh pastries in the bus station?  Don't mind if I do!   And check out those bookbags that are light enough to allow us to go shopping while carrying all our gear.

Fresh pastries in the bus station? Don’t mind if I do!
And check out those bookbags that are light enough to allow us to go shopping while carrying all our gear.

First class buses in Mexico are roughly the equivalent of business class seats on US airlines.  You get food and drinks for free.  The bus had two bathrooms on board for men and women and both were very clean (yes, I peeked into the women’s room for investigative journalism purposes).  Lots of leg room and soft cushioned seats were a nice upgrade after flying coach on US Air from Charlotte to Mexico City.

Sandwich, cookies and a fruity beverage for lunch.

Sandwich, cookies and a fruity beverage for lunch.

After a very short and punctual boarding and departure process in Mexico City, we arrived in San Miguel de Allende at the exact scheduled arrival time in spite of a long traffic jam in San Miguel de Allende.  After suffering long delays while riding Greyhound in North Carolina to get to Charlotte, we appreciated the on time performance of the first class Mexican buses.

This is all we packed for seven weeks in Mexico.

This is all we packed for seven weeks in Mexico.

We didn’t pack a whole lot for this trip since we are moving around every two weeks.  Each person in the family carries one backpack.  The total luggage weight for the whole family is 52 pounds.  That’s an incredible figure since airlines typically allow checked luggage up to 55 pounds (for one suitcase).

Our family has hopped on and off local buses, long distance intercity buses, trains, planes, and subways in the last week.  Packing light helped make it all easier.


How are the kids doing?

They are loving it here and having a great time.  However when I ask them if they want to move here they say “no”.  I’ll give it a few more weeks and see what they think.

We are taking it easy and generally go out for a few hours of exploring then head back home for a meal and some down time.  Sometimes we make it back out a second time in the afternoon or evening, even if it’s just a quick shopping trip to the market.  We’re really applying the concept of Slow Travel to make our trip easier and more relaxed.

These kids are troopers!

These kids are troopers!

Our approach is more of living in different spots for two weeks at a time instead of being tourists.  We are still managing to hit most of the cool places on our list, but there’s not any angst over missing out on some of the attractions.  We can always come back in the future if we want to see even more.

The moment we finally arrived at our home for two weeks

The moment we finally arrived at our home for two weeks


Checking out San Miguel de Allende

San Miguel de Allende is a fairly compact city which makes traveling on foot to visit tourist destinations around town very easy.  Buses and taxis are also cheap at $0.33 and $2.50 USD respectively, though we haven’t needed either one yet.

The Parroquia San Miguel Arcangel

The Parroquia San Miguel Arcangel

Inside the church

Inside the church


Thoughts on the trip after one week

There was a small part of me that said taking a seven week trip to Mexico with three kids was either crazy or stupid.  One week into the trip, I realize my fears were unnecessary.

Life on the road is occasionally challenging but mostly laid back.  We aren’t following a strict itinerary other than the milestones of moving to a new city and new apartment every two weeks.  We go out exploring, sometimes with very little planned, and usually come back home hours later entertained, amazed, exhausted, and feeling like we earned the relaxation back at the casa.

I wrote about safety in Mexico a couple months ago then forgot to worry about safety until a few days into the trip when I was staring out the window at the placid countryside.  I cracked a smile and realized that some folks back home in the US think all of Mexico is this horrible, dirty, dangerous craphole (outside the disneyfied resorts of Cancun at least).  It’s hard to reconcile that negative image with the reality we see on the ground here.

As we were walking out the door one week ago, I reflected on what I thought we would miss about home.  So far, there isn’t a whole lot I miss since I know we’ll be back in six more weeks.  The lack of air conditioning in our rental isn’t an issue at all since the weather is moderate and fairly dry.  Even though the outside temperature climbs into the mid 80’s every day, the inside temperature hovers comfortably in the 70’s due to the shade trees and heavy thermal mass of concrete and brick walls.  We often go out in the hottest part of the day and the heat isn’t that bad.  If we were at home in Raleigh with temperatures in the mid 90’s and high humidity, we would be housebound nearly every day because those temps just plain suck for doing anything outside.

Overall, this trip is a great way to spend a summer.  Mrs. Root of Good will use up two thirds of her sabbatical during the trip.  The kids will spend two thirds of their summer vacation on the trip.  We can already see an improvement in all of our Spanish skills.  We’re active and outdoors for hours each day seeing new sights and trying new foods.



Are we having fun yet?  🙂



What Will We Miss About Home While On The Road


Right now we are rushing to pack the last few items in our backpacks so we can hit the road for our seven week adventure in Mexico.  I’m sure we’ll all have a great time while on the trip, but travel fatigue is also a possibility.

Before we leave, it’s a good time to reflect on how great our lives at home are by thinking about the things we’ll miss the most.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder and you don’t know what you got till it’s gone, as they say.  Even though we don’t spend a lot of money, I recognize by world standards that we live a luxuriously bountiful life that offers everything we need and then some.

Here’s what everyone in the family thinks they will miss over the next seven weeks:


Things Mrs. Root of Good and I will miss:

  • Air conditioning. We won’t have this for 6 weeks and high temps will be in the low to mid-80’s (but 55 to 60 at night).
  • Comfort of our own home.  Everything is how we want it and it’s all familiar and easy.
  • Lounging on the back deck.  It’s getting too hot for that most days at home, but should be nice enough for relaxing on the patio or rooftop terraces at our rentals in Mexico.
  • Peace and quiet. There’s a possibility of fireworks, loud cars, and barking dogs since we’ll be staying in town.
  • Family and friends.  Skype videochatting will help.
  • Babysitters.  We won’t have our family to babysit whenever we need it.
  • Conveniences like our car.  We’ll have to think a little more about where we are going and which bus or subway line to take.
  • Grocery stores that we are familiar with.  However, visiting foreign grocery stores is a cool part of the culture, so learning what they have for sale and how they are organized is part of the fun, too.
  • English being the default language. It’s easy and natural and we don’t have to think.  After a while you Just. Want. To. Speak. English.  But the Spanish immersion will help all of us grow our foreign language proficiency.
  • Waking up every day with nothing to do.  Hey, the routine of early retired life is pretty awesome!  We hope to mix in lots of relaxation with sightseeing so we don’t get burned out too early in the trip.
  • A well stocked fridge, freezer, and pantry.  It’s nice to have a variety of cuts of meat at your fingertips plus a selection of canned goods, dry goods, fresh fruits and vegetables to complement the main dish.  In Mexico, we’ll be shopping for a day or two at a time since we’ll be carrying the groceries back home on foot.
  • A diverse spice rack and sauce selection (curries, pastes, seasonings, etc).  When we cook while on the road, we’ll have to economize on the seasonings and make substitutions at times so we aren’t buying a ton of ingredients for a single dish.  We won’t be able to haul a lot of stuff to the next rental.  Sometimes simple is good though.
Training for the Mexico trip: backpacking the 1.8 miles to Grandma's house.

Traveling on foot or by public transit means thinking ahead.


Things our ten year old daughter will miss:

  • Knowing where things are around the neighborhood and around town.  Although she might learn where things are since we are staying in one place for two weeks at a time
  • Knowing where things are around the house.  The unfamiliarity of new apartments or hotel rooms will be a challenge.
  • Friends.  But she knows we may be able to skype with them.
  • All the normal types of food like candy, pizza, and ice cream.  But she is excited to try the versions of these foods available in Mexico and other new dishes.
  • Our cat. In spite of having to feed her daily.
  • Speaking lots of English.  Time to practice Spanish!
  • Air conditioning
  • Riding in our own cars
  • TV.  She has a tablet and should be able to watch Netflix on the road
  • Laying on a soft couch relaxing.  Our apartment and house rentals have nice sofas!

It sounds like our ten year old has a good grasp on the challenges of life on the road.  And her list has a lot of overlap with our list.


Things our eight year old daughter will miss:

  • Her toy unicorn named Wishful.
  • Her long pants. We’re making her pack shorts due to the heat.

Nothing else, she says.  She is a girl of few words.


Three year old son:

  • His tablet

He was playing on it at the time of the interview.  And proceeded to play on it during the ten seconds he paid attention to me.  I told him we were taking it with us and he said “I can play on it on the buses”.  Smart kid.


Leaving home

To summarize, the adults and the ten year old will miss a lot.  The eight year old and the three year old won’t miss much at all (so they say!).  We’ll see what happens once we’re on the road.

The plan is to put out travel updates once per week.  So keep in touch with us throughout the trip via Facebook, Twitter, or by email or RSS reader (in the column to the right).

Hasta la vista!



What would you miss most about home if you were gone for two months?



photo credit: Russ Bowling @ flickr

Safety and Security in Mexico


Mexico – the land of kidnappings, drug gangs, shoot outs in the streets, massive criminal organizations in armed conflict with the corrupt police.  That type of sensationalism works well if you want to sell newspapers or get clicks on a “news” website.  The reality is that most of the country is very peaceful.  However, the states bordering the US tend to have the most security issues along with a few other areas of the country.

I took a look at the US Department of State Travel Advisory on Mexico and checked out each state we might visit on our trip.  The result?  All states we intend to visit have no listed security concerns except the Estado de Mexico.

US Department of State Travel Advisory for Mexico 
States we will visit:Advisory:
Guanajuato (Guanajuato, San Miguel de Allende)No Advisory
Queretaro (Queretaro)No Advisory
Federal District (Mexico City)No Advisory
Estado de Mexico (Teotihuacan pyramids)Exercise caution
Puebla (Puebla)No Advisory
Oaxaca (Oaxaca)No Advisory
Tabasco (Villahermosa)No Advisory
Campeche (Campeche)No Advisory
Yucatan (Merida, Progreso, Chichen Itza)No Advisory
Quintana Roo (Cancun)No Advisory
Just passing through:
VeracruzExercise caution

Since we only plan on being in the Estado de Mexico to visit the Teotihuacan pyramids for the day and that area isn’t listed as dangerous in the travel advisory, our overall risk on the trip is low.  We will be passing through the state of Veracruz on a major highway while heading east toward Cancun, but don’t plan to stop.  I’m not trying to downplay the potential for violence in Mexico, but rather hope to present a realistic picture of the security situation.  Some areas present elevated risk of violence, other areas are okay.  We’re sticking to the okay areas.

I like to put things in perspective.  It isn’t as if we live in a risk free world.  Right here at home in Raleigh, the headlines show continuous episodes of gun violence, murder, robberies, gang activity and similar horrible things all the time.  At the time of writing this post, the headlines reveal two separate violent murders in the area (the first incident left several others severely injured from the shootout).  To phrase it in a more objective sense: 1,199,998 area residents were NOT murdered in the last week while two were.  99.99983% of us survived.  In Mexico, 122 million people are fine while several tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands are not over the course of a year.

From an international perspective, the USA is also dangerous, according to this travel advisory from the British government:

Violent crime, including gun crime, rarely involves tourists, but you should take care when travelling in unfamiliar areas. Crime associated with the illegal drugs trade is a major issue in Mexican states bordering Arizona, California, New Mexico and Texas. Some foreign nationals have been among the victims of crime in the border regions, but there is no evidence to suggest they have been targeted because of their nationality. Research your destination before travelling, be vigilant, and follow the advice of local authorities.

What if this advisory said “exercise caution in the state of Michigan due to severe gang related violence in regions of Detroit”?  We would think it ridiculous. That’s the way I view travel advisories in Mexico – avoid the specific dangerous cities or regions mentioned in the advisories and use caution everywhere just like you’re at home.  But don’t skip visiting the country at all (whether it’s the US or Mexico) just because some areas have elevated risks.

Some general precautions go a long way like maintaining a low profile.  Leave the thick gold necklaces, sparkly diamond rings, and other flashy bling at home.  We are fortunate to not own any of that stuff (which is how we can afford to spend seven weeks in Mexico), so we are good on that front.  Don’t pull out wads of $100 US bills when trying to buy tacos from a street vendor.  Avoid pickpockets and petty theft by using money belts or keeping your real wallet hidden, only carrying what you need for the day, and having back up credit cards in another location.


Actual real safety concerns in Mexico

What concerns me the most?  Food poisoning, water born pathogens from contaminated drinking water or fresh fruits and vegetables, and motor vehicle accidents where we might be the pedestrian victims.  Roughly in that order.

There’s a good chance someone will get sick at some point while we’re in Mexico, and for that there are antibiotics, rest, hydration, and doctors.  To avoid catching a bug in the first place, we can skip really dodgy street vendors.  But food-born pathogens don’t always discriminate based on appearance or status of the restaurant.  If it’s a busy establishment, that’s usually a good sign that the restaurant hasn’t killed it’s local fan base and the food turns over quickly enough to avoid spoilage.

Water quality is highly variable across the country and even between one hotel, apartment, or restaurant and the one next door.  We’ll stick to bottled water for drinking unless it’s patently obvious that the tap water is safe (like filtered water in a nice hotel).  Lucky for us, bottled water is cheap and ubiquitous (and often ice cold).

While we’re walking around, we’ll have to keep our eyes open and hold hands with the three year old while crossing busy streets.  We walk along our fairly busy streets at home so all of the kids (and adults) are accustomed to avoiding errant drivers and crossing the street carefully.  Practice makes perfect?


Are we crazy?

No, just adventurous.  Nothing in life is risk free.  It all comes down to assessing the risks and ensuring you avoid or mitigate any risks you can.  Being an objective educated risk taker is a good strategy in life generally and applies to traveling overseas just as much as it does to choosing a long term investment strategy, where to live, or what to do for a living.

With that in mind, I’ll leave you with this gem from Go Curry Cracker about his friend’s visit to Guatemala.  They will kill you for your shoes!  And this other one: Gunshots! Or is it just fireworks?


Other posts on Mexico at Root of Good:

Trip Summary

Cost of Seven Weeks in Mexico



What do you think?  Are we crazy?



The Cost of Seven Weeks in Mexico (And How to Minimize it)


What does a seven week trip through Mexico cost?  For us, it’s just over $1,000 per week.  The budget comes to $7,668 for all lodging, food, transportation, entertainment, and miscellaneous expenses.

Travel budget for 7 weeks in Mexico for a family of 5 
Lodging Total3,000
5 weeks apartment rental ($500/wk)2500
1 week free hotels (26k SPG points)0
1 week hotels ($71/nt)500
Food Total ($40/day)1,960
breakfast ($4/day)196
lunch ($12/day)588
dinner ($18/day)882
treats ($6/day incl. beer)294
Transportation Total1,679
airfare (+ 100k frequent flyer miles)408
bus (Raleigh to Charlotte)79
intercity buses in Mexico (1,600 miles at $0.50/mi)800
local buses and taxis ($8/day)392
Entertainment and Attractions ($15/day)735
Miscellaneous ($6/day; laundry, doctor, toiletries, etc)294
Grand Total for 7 weeks in Mexico$7,668
Savings from not living in Raleigh for 7 weeks-1750
Net Vacation Cost ($121/day)$5,918


We plan on staying in apartments rented by the week for most of the trip.  Two great resources for this are and (with Airbnb offering $25 off your reservation by clicking through that link).

Since there are five of us, a two bedroom apartment or house rental provides tons of space for us to spread out.  Hotel rooms can get cramped with three kids, so we will stay in hotels when we are only staying in one place for a few nights or less.

The weekly rentals might end up cheaper than the hotels.  For planning purposes, I’m assuming we pay $500 per week and can’t find any places that will offer discounts for stays longer than one week.

I have $40 per day budgeted for food.  Breakfast, at $4/day will mostly be something we eat at home.  Fresh fruits like mango, bananas, and oranges are incredibly cheap and plentiful in Mexico and will be a breakfast staple.  Delicious breads and pastries are also ridiculously cheap from the panaderias (bakeries).  Eggs and yogurt are also good breakfast options.

We’ll probably eat lunch out most days since we’ll already be away from the house.  At $12/day on average, this should afford a healthy serving of tacos, tortas, and other simple meals.  We will spend more at sit down restaurants occasionally, but also spend less from time to time by dining at home or packing a picnic.

Mexican food from our cruise to Mexico.  I can't wait for the real deal.

Mexican food from our cruise to Mexico. I can’t wait for the real deal.

At $18/day for dinner, we can get some good fresh meats and veggies from the market or grocery store and eat well at home perhaps half the time.  We might spend $28 on dinner at a restaurant one night then $8 on groceries for dinner the next night, and end up with $18/day on average for dinners.  Or maybe we blow the budget and dine out all the time if the food is unbelievable.

For transportation expenses, we booked flights using frequent flyer miles and ended up paying $408 for taxes and fees. The local and intercity buses in Mexico are cheap as are the taxis.  Hopefully we can walk to some destinations, but we’ll still need to take a bus or taxi occasionally to get around town (for $8/day).  Buses are about $0.40-.50 per person and taxis are a few bucks for short trips.

Intercity buses are very affordable.  For the 280 mile route from Mexico City to Oaxaca (the same distance as Boston to Philadelphia or Los Angeles to Las Vegas), first class deluxe service is $37.  And the Mexican buses are really nice.  Children ride at half off adult fares, so our family of five can make the roughly seven hour bus journey for $130 (with the potential for discounts when buying tickets online).  For planning purposes, I assumed a rough cost of $0.50 per mile for our family of five for intercity bus travel (or $.15/mile for someone traveling alone).  The route through Mexico City, San Miguel de Allende, Oaxaca, and Cancun is roughly 1,600 miles which leads to an approximate cost of $800 for all of the intercity bus travel.

To put bus costs in perspective, flights from Mexico City to Oaxaca would cost around $400 if we happened to fly on the cheapest day and reserve tickets weeks ahead of time.  We can save $270 by taking the bus and only spend a few extra hours, drink in views of the countryside, and enjoy the luxury of the first class bus instead of the cramped second class economy seats aboard a plane.  We might be able to fly from Oaxaca to Cancun for just a little bit more than the price of bus tickets, so this may be an option although we would miss seeing large parts of Mexico.

For entertainment costs, I threw $15/day into the budget.  That will be museum admission fees (usually a couple dollars for adults, less for children), movie tickets, and throwing a few pesos into street performer’s upturned hats.

Miscellanous costs of $6/day include things like laundry, toiletries, and the rare doctor visit.


Save money by going on vacation?

Will the trip really cost us $7,668?  No.

Since we won’t be living our normal lives in Raleigh, we’ll be saving about $1,000 per month out of our $2,700 monthly early retirement budget.  What costs are we skipping at home?

  • Utilities (likely to be paid by housesitter) – $280/mo
  • Groceries – $520/mo
  • Dining Out – $80/mo
  • Entertainment – $80/mo
  • Gas – $40/mo

For 7 weeks, that adds up to $1,750 in normal living expenses that can be subtracted from the cost of our trip, leaving us with a net cost of $5,918.  This is actually more than the $5,350 we planned to spend on travel in 2015, and we already spent $325 earlier in the year on a cruise.

Two thoughts come to mind.  The first is that we can afford it.  Check out our February 2015 financial update.  Our investments keep growing and we can afford to live it up a bit during these times of plenty.  The other thought is that we won’t be taking trips like this every year.  Or will we?  The plan is to cut back on spending when our investments drop below a certain point.


Travel Hacking

Flights to Mexico City from Raleigh were about $600 per person and flights to Cancun were $400 per person.  We spent 100,000 frequent flyer miles plus $400 for taxes and fees for five tickets to Mexico City and returning from Cancun, which means we saved about $2,100 versus paying cash for five tickets (taking the average of the two ticket prices).

I learned that it’s pretty tricky to book five tickets on the same flight for some frequent flyer programs.  United had the best availability going to Mexico, but I found an even better deal with American Airlines on the way down.  Using British Airways Avios points to book the American Airlines flight, I only spent 10,000 points per ticket for a non-stop flight out of Charlotte.  Sure, we have to get to Charlotte, but we’ll also land in Mexico City at noon instead of flying on crazy routes with long layovers using other frequent flyer programs.

For the return trip, I couldn’t find anything to Raleigh or Charlotte in late July on any of the programs I belong to.  Except one flight with really crappy routing on United for 17,500 points per ticket.  When I returned to United the next day to book the tickets, they were gone.  My choices at that point were to fly back home out of Guatemala City or Cancun.  Cancun had the best redemption option on Southwest at 10,000 points and excellent routing through BWI on the way to Raleigh for a total flight time of only six hours.  Sold.

For us, having a diversity of frequent flyer accounts made it much easier to find flights that fit our schedule (as long as we remained flexible on the location of the airports).  With points at United, American, Southwest, and British Airways we have four chances to find good routes with short layovers and low point cost.  By booking through Southwest, we even saved about $70 on fees compared to the other airlines’ “free” tickets.

For our free hotels, I’m using Starwood Preferred Guest points.  There are a few Category 2 hotels in Mexico that are very nice and don’t cost many points.  We will probably book the Four Points by Sheraton in Mexico City and the Aloft in Cancun.  Each hotel is 3,000 points per night on weekends and 4,000 points during the week.  Or 26,000 points for a week.  The standard offer for the Starwood Preferred Guest Amex card is usually 25,000 SPG points plus another 5,000 from meeting the spending requirement.  That means one credit card bonus is good for a week of free hotel stays!

Here’s a quick summary of the cards we signed up for to get enough points for our trip:

  • Chase British Airways Visa – currently 50,000 points bonus offer
  • Southwest card by Chase – 25,000 points bonus offer (sometimes as high as 50,000)
  • Starwood American Express – 25,000 bonus points offer (sometimes as high as 30,000)

Whether it’s hotel points or airline miles you seek, it certainly helps stretch the travel dollar.  Check out some of the airline or hotel credit card offers if you would like to get free flights or hotel nights too.  It won’t take long to accumulate enough points to travel the world for free, even if you have a family like us.


Handling travel expenses while on vacation

We will use a combo of credit cards and cash withdrawn from an ATM (= cheap way to get local currency).  To keep track of spending and make sure we aren’t going crazy, all transactions automatically go into Personal Capital (review here).

I’ll use our Chase Sapphire card or another card with no foreign transaction fees to avoid a 3% surcharge on every purchase.

Cash is king in the markets and for street vendors, so we’ll have to keep plenty on hand for small purchases.  Larger purchases like intercity bus tickets and sit down restaurant meals can be charged on the credit card (to earn more points toward our next vacation!).

On our trip to Canada, we managed to spend significantly less than we budgeted ($77/day instead of $125/day) and there is a chance the same thing will happen on this trip.  Mexico offers a lot of opportunities to get by on a shoestring budget, although that isn’t our goal this time around.


Other Mexico trip posts:

Trip Overview

How we plan to stay safe 



Any money saving tips for Mexico (or in general) that I’m missing?  



Summer In Mexico: The Next Big Adventure


The plane tickets are booked. In early June the Root of Good family packs up and hits the road for a summer in Mexico.  Just another crazy thing you can do when early retired.

We’ll be chasing the kids up and down pyramids and mountains, into the crystal clear water, and then relaxing in the shade until the smell of grilling meats lures us to the explosive colors of the local markets.



The adventure begins when we fly into Mexico City in early June.  We depart on a non-stop flight from Charlotte instead of Raleigh, so we are taking an afternoon Greyhound bus halfway across North Carolina the day before.  It’ll be boot camp for all the buses we plan on taking between cities in Mexico.  Except the Mexican buses are ten times nicer than the Greyhound buses here in the US.


The plan is to spend a week and a half in Mexico City, then head north to San Miguel de Allende for a couple of weeks.  After that, we head south to Oaxaca for another couple of weeks.  Once departing Oaxaca, the route blurs a bit.  The final destination is Cancun, with possible stops in Villahermosa, Campeche, and Merida for a night or two each.  This is all subject to change if we find a compelling reason to stay in some places more or less than planned (nicer accommodations or more local attractions are two reasons).

In the next post I reveal our trip budget for just over $1,000 per week.  And reveal how we saved thousands of dollars on this trip from travel hacking flights and hotels with credit card bonus offers.


Since we’ll be gone for almost two months and hopping on and off buses, planes and taxis throughout our journey, I need to evaluate our luggage needs.  We have a range of wheeled suitcases that could work but it would be a huge chore to carry these things more than a block or two.  We already have two small backpacks that can double as suitcases for the two older children and we can use them for daypacks while we’re out exploring each day.

I’m looking at travel backpacks for me and Mrs. Root of Good so we can carry our stuff more easily on this trip and similar trips in the future.  The Mad Fientist shared his backpack choices in his globe-trotting multi-month trip summary, so that’s probably a good place to start the search.  He went with a 43-liter Kelty while his wife went with the Osprey Farpoint 40 liter pack.  I haven’t bought a travel pack like this since I was a teenager so I guess I need to go to a sporting goods store or outdoors outfitter to try a few types on before committing to anything.

For portable electronics, I have a couple of old smartphones and my current Samsung Galaxy S3.  I don’t think any of them work on overseas wireless networks, but we can use them for offline navigating via Google Maps or the Maps.Me app.  We also have a T-Mobile prepaid phone with hundreds of minutes on it that might work in Mexico in a pinch.  To our surprise, it worked perfectly in Canada (although at high international rates that chewed up the minutes pretty fast). Do we want to carry the extra few ounces of weight for an emergency phone?

We have two 15″ laptops that weigh between 4.75 and 5 pounds.  I’m debating between taking one or taking two with us.  Since there will be five of us, it would be nice to have two “full size” entertainment and productivity devices.  But do we really want to carry an extra five pounds of electronics in order to have a full size second device?

A better solution for the second (and possibly third) entertainment device is a 6-7″ tablet like the Amazon Fire HD 7 in the $100-150 range.   I like to read, so I might also go for a 6″ tablet for me or a dedicated e-reader like the Kindle (for $79).  I don’t really want to load up on special purpose electronics that won’t get much use at home, but cutting down on the weight will be nice.  Although I might fall back on good old paperback books since I really enjoy the analog experience.  I don’t think second hand or new English language books will be that hard to come by, and there might even be books at the apartments we will rent or at community libraries.

In an ideal world, I’d like to take a really sharp kitchen knife with me.  Since the friendly TSA agents typically frown on things like that in carry on luggage, I’ll probably skip it.  Another food-related gadget that I would love is a multi-purpose tool or pocketknife for those times when you really want to cut up some fresh fruit from the market while on the go.  Mmmm mangos mmmmm.


We’re traveling with three kids including a three year old.  Many of the concerns revolve around the kids and how they will deal with the sometimes adverse conditions on the road.

For the kids, I’m concerned about whining, picky eaters, heat, and mosquitoes.  Any one or two of those in isolation isn’t that bad.  Three or four, taken together, can turn a fun trip into a not so fun one.  I don’t like the heat and mosquitoes that much either, so we plan on spending more time in regions that have nice weather and less time in the hot and humid locales.  If it is hot and buggy, air conditioned hotel rooms and bug spray will become very important.


Their first taste of Mexico. It was hot.

I addressed the security concerns of traveling in Mexico in this post.  People think Mexico equals gang warfare, kidnappings and severe violence spilling blood in the streets.  That’s about the exact opposite of what most of the country is like most of the time.  Getting sick from drinking the water or food poisoning is a concern (also addressed in a future post).

Exhaustion is another concern, so we’ll be taking slow travel to heart.  While on our five week road trip to Canada last year, we all decided we had enough fun for one summer half way through the trip and returned home early.  The two year old will be three this year, making the trip much easier for us.  But will we make it?  Stay tuned to find out!



Top goals of the trip are relaxation, good food, and adventure.  Oaxaca has been on my radar for a while since some consider it the food mecca of Mexico.  I have to visit to verify the accuracy of that claim one huarache stand at a time.  We like to cook at home, and I hope to learn a few new tricks while eating my way across Mexico.

San Miguel de Allende (SMA) gets good press as a cool little expat town with good weather.  Unfortunately we are visiting during the hottest time of the year, but it’s still very moderate compared to our North Carolina summers.  I want to investigate SMA to see just how relaxing it is there.  Jeremy and Winnie at Go Curry Cracker had a great time in their $1,000 per month three bedroom house, and we hope to find a similarly nice place for our two week stay.

We chose Cancun as the final destination on the trip because I couldn’t find a return flight from anywhere closer to Mexico City (other than Guatemala City).  I booked tickets using frequent flyer miles and had a hard time finding return flights home for the five of us in July, so we compromised on location instead of trip length.  I’ve always wanted to visit the Yucatan peninsula (for more than a day like on our cruise to Mexico last year), and this was an easy way to make it happen while saving money and frequent flyer points.  Having the time to be flexible paid off big time in this case.

Fifteen years ago Mrs. Root of Good and I spent six weeks traveling around the northern and central parts of Mexico on a shoestring budget ($700 each for six weeks).  This time, we are returning with more money and more kids for round two of our Mexican adventures.



What’s the longest trip you’ve ever taken?  Was it too short or too long?



A Day Of Early Retirement – Going on a Walkabout


After a cold and abnormally snowy winter, the first day of beautiful spring-like weather came calling last week.  We answered that call by getting outside and enjoying the fine weather.  Even though it was Monday, a day that normally brings dread to cubicle dwellers the world over, we found ourselves embarking on foot for a journey to… a gas station?  That rather strange destination, especially given our mode of transport, was sheer pretext to pull us out of doors and into the great urban Wilderness that surrounds us.

It was the most ordinary of mornings in the most extraordinary sense possible.  We caught the budding cherry trees just before the blossoms opened.  We passed by an empty bird nest temporary vacated or possibly deserted.  A recent ice storm deposited scattered hulks of downed branches across the neighborhood’s yards, some already smartly stacked by the sidewalk obediently awaiting a ride to the city yard waste center.

Earlier in the morning before our journey to the gas station, I set out on my own adventure to deliver the kids to school.  It was so nice that taking the shortest route back home would be a minor misdemeanor (if not a more serious offense).  I was compelled to detour through the park and along the paved trail paralleling the creek.  The more circuitous route revealed a narrow deer path on the far side of the creek leading down to the slowly ambling water.  A season of wild steps wore the path down to reveal the rusty red clay beneath the thick layer of leaves on the forest floor.  Down into the water the path led, straight toward me.  Up the bank and across my paved trail a set of wet footprints emerged.

While trying to identify the type of animal that just crossed my path minutes earlier, I took to pondering how many other sets of ephemeral footprints tracked across the trail earlier in the day only to evaporate completely unseen by us human interlopers.  Maybe a dog or an opossum or a raccoon left this set, but I didn’t delay any longer trying to puzzle it out.  On I walked toward home.

Once home, I spent a few minutes reading some of the wonderful comments you readers left on that Monday’s post about my Financial Independence plan as a 17 year old.  Then I cracked open a new novel (East of Eden by John Steinbeck) until Mrs. Root of Good was ready to join me on our main adventure of the day.  If our trip is as good as my new book, I thought, then this Monday will be one to remember.

We set out with two year old Mr. RoG Jr. accompanying us on foot as we pushed his unoccupied stroller that doubled as a gear hauler for the day.  I hesitate to call it “gear” since it was only a few bottles of water, snacks, and some books we needed to return to the library.

Off we went, making steady headway along the sidewalk.  We passed the library about a mile into the trip, deciding to stop there on the way back from the gas station.  Beyond the library lays relatively unexplored pedestrian territory for us.  We crossed the main road too early and quickly realized the sidewalk stops for a full city block.  Years of heavy footsteps on this segment of our path left a firmly packed dirt trail that allowed us to push the stroller with moderate ease until we rejoined the paved sidewalk at the next intersection.

Along the unpaved trail I noticed a future anthropologist’s dream – the discarded remnants of those pedestrians that passed by before us.  A small platoon of forty ounce malt liquor bottles next to a quartet of Gatorade bottles.  Sun-faded cigarette and cigar packages sprouting through the thin layer of pine needles, already partially hidden from the present world and rapidly becoming part of the past.  Beef jerky packages mixed with McDonald’s wrappers served with a side of french fry containers, all patiently waiting their turn to be discovered by that future anthropologist and revealed as the main dietary constituents of the early twenty first century human’s food supply.

Not to leave the anthropologist misinformed about our epoch’s housing situation, some thoughtful contractor left a major clue about twenty feet into the woods.  A large roll of fiberglass insulation marked “R-19” would tell our future anthropologist that humans used to live in houses nearby and enjoyed some form of interior climate control.

On we walked, past what many consider trash but some in the future will consider cultural treasure of our era.  Before long we could see the bright red canopy sheltering the gas pumps from the elements.  Mr. RoG Jr. proclaimed “I’ve never been there before!”.  He has a few times, but never on foot.  Everything looks different when viewed from a pedestrian scale.


The most epic sub sandwich ever

We enter the gas station as I pull out a small stack of coupons.  I didn’t come here to spend any money, but rather to claim my free six inch sub and a free coffee or drink of any size.  The gas station (Sheetz, for the gustationally curious) serves a wide variety of subs, sandwiches, and drinks for a very low price.  It’s not gourmet, but still a step up from Subway in my opinion.  Not many would venture out on foot on a four mile round trip just to get a free coffee and free sub sandwich.  But the weather was nice, we wanted to go out walking, and a free sub and cup of coffee at the half way point served as just enough enticement.

I went for the extra large self-serve Cupo’ccino of crème brûlée mixed with caramel brownie.  A little too thick and sweet, I cut in a generous serving of Serious Dark Roast coffee.  For the sub sandwich I opted for the sliced steak.  The coupon stated the sandwich was free, including any upcharges, extra cheese and added toppings.  I considered that a personal invitation to make the most ridiculous, over the top, yet good tasting sandwich imaginable.


Sheetz has these cool touchscreens where you place your own order and customize to your heart’s content (or the guy in line behind you tells you to hurry it up).

On top of the steak, I ordered these free toppings:

  • fire roasted tomatoes
  • boom boom sauce
  • caramelized onions
  • cooked peppers
  • parmesan cheese
  • sliced tomatoes
  • banana peppers
  • pickled jalapenos
  • black olives
  • pickles
  • cucumbers

And these upcharged toppings that were free with my coupon:

  • French fries (yes, on the sandwich)
  • provolone cheese
  • mozzarella
  • meat and bean chili
  • cole slaw
  • pico de gallo

I turned a $3 steak sandwich into an $8 monster with 17 toppings that turned out to be completely free.  I suppressed a smile as I went through the checkout line and paid in full with my coupon.

Some would look at the resulting sandwich and think it grotesque.  I viewed it as a steak and cheese sub plus french fries plus nachos plus a salad.  A work of modern art.  Though we had to eat it with a fork, it was pretty awesome nonetheless.

With our bellies full of our steak sandwich buffet and neurotransmitters fully turbocharged with caffeine, we started the return trip back home.  Don’t worry, we didn’t deposit any cultural treasures along the roadside for our future anthropologist friend to find later.  There’s already enough human detritus scattered along the path as is.

We made a pit stop at the library and playground on the way back home.  The little guy had to get his rock climbing fix before the day was out.  As he played, I visited the library to pick up a few (free) books.


After the park we finally arrived home and enjoyed an afternoon of laying around on the back deck.  It was perfect hammock weather, so I grabbed my book and reclined for a few hours of laziness.  A nice long walk left me with a slight fatigue and tiredness equivalent to knocking back a beer or two.  Not quite exhausted, just worn out enough that an afternoon of hammock-laying feels like a reasonable reward for the morning’s efforts.

Later in the afternoon we had to retrieve the older kids from school.  That marked mile number six for me and mile number ten for Mrs. RootofGood for the day (she worked out earlier in the day).

Mrs. RootofGood is taking a day or two off here and there in order to use up her vacation time.  This day was a miniature taste of early retirement for her.  A day without any real structure and with the freedom to get out and explore.


Letting time slow down

A few months ago I mentioned our possible summer trips to Oaxaca, Mexico or a cross-country road trip to California and back and also discussed the joys of walking around in that article.  Whether we are enjoying slow travel on the road or slow travel by foot while on a staycation at our house, there’s always something to appreciate if you slow down and pay attention to what’s happening around you.

Even though we set out on a trip to the gas station for a free sandwich and coffee, it was the trip itself I enjoyed the most.  The journey is often an intrinsically valuable end in itself, whether it’s working toward big goals in life or walking to the gas station.  Are we there yet?  We’re always there.


Spending nothing all day is the biggest expense we have

On that gloriously perfect Monday, we spent exactly zero dollars.  That’s not really abnormal, as we don’t spend any money on plenty of days if we don’t leave the house for anything.  The strange part is keeping busy and engaged outside of the house most of the day without spending any money.  We have months (like last month and last June) where we don’t spend more than $1,000 for our family of five.

It’s easy to keep expenses down when we focus on enjoying the free things first like great weather and the outdoors, offers of free food, free books from the library, and free fun time on the playground.  Buying groceries and cooking at home is another expert way to keep spending at a minimum.  We religiously track expenses using Personal Capital to be mindful of how much we spend (in real time) and where the cash disappears to each month (hint: it’s not a black hole).

I don’t think happiness is strongly correlated with spending a ton of money.  Or at least it isn’t for me.  Beyond having enough to provide the basics in life plus the rare luxury, additional consumption doesn’t have a highly positive marginal benefit.  I get a lot more enjoyment appreciating what I have rather than expending mental energy figuring out what else I can get.

From an accounting perspective, our walkabout cost exactly nothing since we didn’t spend a dime.  But in a symbolic sense, the freedom to roam at our whim on a random Monday of our choosing cost us over a million dollars.  A price well worth paying when you can enjoy the ordinary in such an extraordinary way any day you want.



What’s the most amazing completely ordinary experience you have enjoyed lately?  



photo credit: coofdy @ flickr

Crazy Things Made Possible By Early Retirement


For those who love their jobs or those that can’t manage to ever save any money, they may not understand why anyone would want to retire early.  “Won’t you get bored?” they ask.  Not yet!  In fact, having huge blocks of free time opens up a lot of possibilities that aren’t very feasible while working full time.

I used to write a monthly summary of what I’m up to in early retirement like thisthis, this, and this.  I haven’t kept this diary of excitement up to date lately, but I wanted to share a small sample of the tiny and huge things that early retirement permit.


Serendipitous discoveries while walking around

I walk my two oldest children to and from their neighborhood elementary school every day.  The round trip is about 20 minutes on the most direct route or 30 minutes if I divert over the river and through the woods along the nature trail in the park.  Our two year old tags along with us like a little trooper every day.

One day this week he decided that watching the roofers tear off old shingles atop a neighbor’s house was The Most Exciting Thing In The World ™ at that moment.  Why not stand on the sidewalk and watch this novel activity?  From his two year old perspective, this was incredible.  There were six guys ripping a house apart from the top down and throwing the shredded bits of shingles, tar paper, and plywood onto the tarpaulin moat surrounding the house.

If we were driving by in a hurry, it’s unlikely that any of us would have noticed this crazy bit of excitement that only happens about once every twenty years (for a particular house).  A few friends drove by on our busy street and stopped to chat while I waited on Mr. RoG Jr. to get a feel for exactly how to re-roof a house, should he ever need that skill in the future.

After 30 minutes, we left the construction site and made our way home, but not before stopping at the stream in front of our house to observe what the little guy calls “big water”.

I’m happy to report that we eventually made it inside the house without further distractions.


Visiting the Art Museum in the middle of the work day

After completing my lunchtime volunteering gig, I found myself within a few thousand feet of  the art museum.  I had a couple of hours before my afternoon obligations and a strong desire to see what’s new (and what’s hundreds of years old) in the art world.

I enter the new wing of the art museum and strike up a conversation with the front desk receptionist.  She immediately recognized what kind of a patron of the arts I was, and offered me a membership to the museum.  For only $75!  She must have figured I was loaded since I have the free time to meander around the art museum in the middle of the work day.

Why pay $75 when I had almost the entire museum reserved for myself for free?  You see, everyone else was at work.  I stumbled into a free escorted tour of the collection by an overly friendly docent and her docent-in-training where I was joined by some fellow retirees (three decades my senior) who live in Mexico full time.  That couple plus another pair of young folks roughly my age completed our squad of wannabe art connoisseurs.

The museum has a great collection and I even noticed this gem:

Sometimes a blue trapezoid is just a blue trapezoid.

Sometimes a blue trapezoid is just a blue trapezoid.

It’s just a blue trapezoid.  I laugh every time I see it.  I guess it qualifies as art in some abstract sense incomprehensible to me.  The other paintings and sculptures were way cooler.


Month(s) Long Road Trips

We set out on a month long road trip this past summer, but cut it short once travel fatigue set in (and there was that really dirty airbnb apartment, too).  That’s what happens when you try something really ambitious with a two year old and then reality catches up with you!

With a full time job, it’s nearly impossible to get away from the office for more than a week or two.  Now that I’m fully retired and Mrs. RoG is almost there (with tons of time off), we have the flexibility to undertake long trips that are primarily limited by our family’s energy (and secondarily by our travel budget).

What’s next?  I don’t have any clue, but here are a few epic trips I’ve been batting around to see what sticks (and what Mrs. RoG and the rest of the family think).

A North Carolina to California cross country trip.  I don’t know if we want to fit this into a single summer, but it would let us hit a number of destinations in the middle of the US like Nashville, the Mississippi river, Kansas City, Denver, Las Vegas, the Grand Canyon, and many other national parks in between.

A summer in Oaxaca, Mexico.  It’s supposed to have the best food in Mexico, and I love food.  Especially Mexican food.  We could rent a house for a few months and eat our way through all the local markets and restaurants.  I could brush up on my slowly rusting Spanish skills, and our kids could probably gain basic proficiency in the language by the end of the summer.

Another benefit to escaping to southern Mexico for the summer is, strangely enough, the weather.  North Carolina summers tend to be really hot and humid (87 to 89 degree average highs and average high dew points over 70 degrees).  Even though Oaxaca is much closer to the equator, their “summer” runs from March through May and by June the climate cools off.  The June through August period in Oaxaca is unfortunately the rainy season (no rainier than NC), but the high temperatures hover around 80-82 degrees and the dew point remains a fairly comfortable 60-62 degrees F.  In other words, we could probably spend a lot more time outside in Oaxaca than we could in Raleigh, NC during the summer months.  And we would have a brand new (to us) medium sized city to explore.


Perpetual Travel

If we let the travel bug metamorphosize into a full grown beast, we have perpetual travel.  For us, this might include leasing out our home in Raleigh long term and then hitting the road for many months or even years.  Then we could travel as slowly as we want and make our way around the world at our own pace.

With young kids, I don’t think we will do this in the next few years.  It would require us to rethink how our kids are educated and what kind of lifestyle we enjoy most.  I really like having lots of unstructured free time at home, so I’m not sure I could commit to the perpetual travel lifestyles that the folks at Go Curry Cracker and Retire Early Lifestyle enjoy.

We love to travel, but having the comforts of a home base waiting for us upon our return is wonderful.  We will have to get a serious long term trip completed before we consider the perpetual traveler lifestyle.



Now that I’m free all day, I could pull our kids from their neighborhood traditional school and teach them at home.  I don’t really know a lot about homeschooling right now, so I have a lot to learn before I could consider this option.  Those who homeschool swear by it.

We treat traditional schooling as just one part of a full education for our kids.  Traditional school can’t teach them everything and can’t cater to their exact interests that change over time.  Their school does a great job of providing options.  We are very happy there, so it would be hard to leave it behind.

The biggest benefit to homeschooling would be complete freedom to travel whenever we want.  We managed to “homeschool” the kids successfully while on a week-long cruise to Mexico and Central America this past September.  They missed a full week of school but didn’t seem to get behind.  They had homework from school which we supplemented with our usual extra assignments of reading and writing.


It’s all about freedom

Who knows what we’ll end up doing in the future?  I know we have an unlimited range of choices before us.  Without the constraints of full time work, we can choose whatever we want.  At the least, we won’t be spending the next few decades locked in a cubicle responding to emails and attending boring meetings.  Hopefully we’ll stumble into random (and planned) exciting and interesting experiences for a long time to come.



What crazy thing would you do if you suddenly had unlimited free time?  



Our Bad Experience With AirBnB Rental Had A Happy Ending


While on our road trip through Canada, we rented a two bedroom apartment in Quebec City.  The reviews at AirBnB were great and made the place sound clean and well-appointed.  It had a large kitchen with plenty of room for us to cook.  The living room was spacious and had enough seating for our family of five.  The bedrooms had comfortable beds and plenty of linens.

When I first walked in and the host toured me around his apartment, I thought, “hey this place looks great!”.  I was taking in the big picture of where we would be relaxing and enjoying our vacation for the next week in this beautiful city.  As soon as the host handed over the keys and left, Mrs. Root of Good looks at me with this look.  It’s hard to describe, but it’s the “oh no, something is really wrong” look I rapidly discovered.  It turns out the place was filthy and I was somehow enamored of the big picture of the place and didn’t pay attention to the tiny, crusty, hairy, grimy details of the general state of filth of the place.

Hey, it looked clean enough from a distance...

Hey, it looked clean enough from a distance…

We knew the owner had a cat, but we requested the cat not be present during our stay due to mild allergies suffered by one of our kids.  We didn’t know the owner would leave us with an apartment filled with the cat’s weight in cat hair.  Adhering to all the upholstered surfaces in the living room, the furry critter’s discards made inhabiting the apartment nearly impossible for us.  I’m not talking a little cat hair stuck to the couch and rug and wispy hairballs floating across the floor as we walk by.  I mean 3/4″ of pure unadulterated cat hair quilting everywhere we might have chosen to sit.

I make it sound like the cat hair was spread out everywhere around the apartment.  However that’s far from the truth so I don’t want to oversell it.  Some of the cat hair was highly concentrated in one place.  The owner left us with a trash can half full of cat hairballs (and the cap from a new stick of deodorant).  Bizarre, I know.  I wish we discovered it on the first day instead of later in the stay.



The cat hair was only half the problem.  The floors were incredibly grimy and dirty.  I didn’t realize how bad they were until I took my socks off (we were there to relax, right?) and after a few minutes of walking around the soles of my feet turned black.  Not good.

Two rounds of sweeping and mopping later and I managed to bring it down from DEFCON 5 to DEFCON 3.  In non-military parlance, that means just a moderate amount of grunge instead of the initial thick coating of grunge.

Somewhere during hour #2 of cleaning some other dude’s apartment, I started getting a little disheartened.  Sure, travel is supposed to throw the occasional challenge at you to keep things exciting.  But I seriously didn’t know what to think or do.  While completing the second round of mopping and sweeping, I was still committed to making the apartment rental work (after a little more cleaning, of course).

Improvised sofa cover (=bed sheet from the linen closet).  We tried, folks, we tried.

Improvised sofa cover (=bed sheet from the linen closet). We tried, folks, we tried.

While I was busy getting the floors to some reasonable level of cleanliness (all I ask for is “reasonable”), Mrs. Root of Good found the vacuum cleaner and started battling the blanket of cat hair in the living room.  Those valiant efforts didn’t last long though.  I can’t recall what she figured out first.  It might have been that the vacuum cleaner sucks in the pejorative sense (as in it doesn’t produce an adequate vacuum pressure).  Or it might have been that the vacuum constantly trips the circuit breaker (cleverly hidden behind artwork hanging in the kitchen).


A few hours into our less than pleasant stay, we started to get hungry.  Heading to the kitchen, we discovered it wasn’t much cleaner than the other common spaces.  Pink mold surrounded the sink basin and faucet.  Countertops, cabinets, and kitchen table were all slightly sticky to the touch from years of substandard cleaning efforts.

The floor continued to get dirtier even though we would wipe our feet on the kitchen rugs constantly.  We soon discovered it was the rugs that were actually soiling our feet due to being heavily saturated with an emulsified mixture of cooking grease, dirt, and cat hair.  I rolled those rugs up and stuck them somewhere before mopping (again).

What cat hair?

What cat hair?

Mrs. Root of Good made the call that the kitchen was not fit to cook in, and that we would be escaping our den of uncleanliness for dinner somewhere clean.  Smart choice!

The bathroom was reasonably clean, so we were able to enjoy some nice hot showers and steal a few moments away from the filth.  As soon as we woke up the next morning we both realized this apartment wasn’t going to work out.  We quickly made the joint executive decision to cut our losses and move on.

I found out we could cancel the AirBnB reservation and get a full refund (less AirBnB reservation fees) for the unused nights remaining on our reservation.  I only had 30 minutes to cancel before incurring costs for another day, so I went ahead and processed the cancellation and immediately received a refund for the last six nights of our stay.

At that point, getting a refund was secondary to getting out of that apartment.  We spent the rest of that day sightseeing around Quebec City.  After a day of touring the town that we had planned on visiting over the course of a whole week, we returned to the apartment, packed everything we could into the trunk of our Accord, and went to sleep for night number two in our dirty apartment.  First thing the next morning we set out for the long drive back to North Carolina.  Home.  And cleanliness.

I can agree with half of this:  Behind the couch is a great place to store Christmas wrapping paper and a cat turd.

I can agree with half of this: Behind the couch is a great place to store Christmas wrapping paper and cat turds.

After returning home, I called AirBnB to see what they could do to make our poor experience better.  The phone representative seemed genuinely shocked about the conditions at our apartment, and suggested I send any photos of the filth to them.  The phone representative said she couldn’t promise anything, but that AirBnB would review my case and take the appropriate action (if any).

AirBnB eventually reached out to me after a week or two and offered a full refund of the customarily non-refundable AirBnB fees and a full refund for the two nights we did stay in the apartment.  In other words, our entire stay at the apartment turned out to be dirty, but free.

AirBnB also apologized for the condition of the apartment and gave us a $150 AirBnB credit valid toward any future AirBnB stay anywhere in the world.  They also reaffirmed their commitment to assist me with finding last minute alternative accommodations should there ever be a similar problem with a future rental.


Thoughts on AirBnB

As far as I’m concerned, AirBnB ranks up there with Amazon and Ebay for buyer protections.  They looked at the facts surrounding my problem and made a sensible decision to keep me happy as a customer.  Instead of losing me as a customer forever and leaving me with a poor impression of their business, they left me with some positive goodwill toward their operations.

I won’t hesitate to consider their rental listings in the future (along with competing lodging choices from other vendors).  The apartments and houses I found while browsing on AirBnB were competitively priced compared to hotels in the cities we visited.  Other vacation rental sites like Home Away and had a decent selection of properties, but didn’t seem to have very competitive prices or flexible booking terms.

AirBnB’s site has an intuitive and robust search interface that lets you drill down with filters to find exactly what you want, where you want it, when you want it, and within your desired price range.

If this sounds like sales copy for AirBnB, it is.  I think they have a compelling business model of connecting consumers of lodging with owners of lodging.  They allow people to make a little extra money off their house or apartment, and provide vacationers with a more affordable and more spacious alternative to a hotel.

Unfortunately the occasional issue arises, but if my own experience is any indicator, they work to make things right.  I would encourage you to take a look at AirBnB’s listings the next time you need a place to stay while on vacation.  If you want to save $25 off your booking, please click through this link.  (Note: Airbnb gives me $25 toward my next stay if you sign up through my link and complete a stay).


Updated January 28, 2015:  Looks like this owner took his rental listing off of airbnb.  One less problem property…


Have you ever stayed in an AirBnB or similar rental?  How was it?


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